b'ADayinally! The moment you have dreamed of your entire life: the man of your dreams has popped the question and you said YES! Now you can begin planning thewedding youve always wanted.What better way to celebrate your love and commitment to your partner than a beautiful wedding? Of course, there is plenty of work that must go into planning a wedding. But dont fret! Its your wedding, which means you and your groom choose how large or small it is. Dont feel pressured to have a huge, over-the-top wedding if its not in your budget, or if you just arent a fan of that.Smaller, more intimate weddings can be just as lovely; its all in the planning. First of all, take a moment to imagine your wedding ceremony. Brainstorm about how youd like your reception to be. Think about the things you want to include to make your big day truly special to you and unique to your guests. Once you have mentally envisioned an ideal wedding and reception, the next step is to take action!Here is a timeline checklist to help you take care of business in the months, weeks and days leading up to your big day.Set the budget and styleChoose your attendants For the wedding, reception and wedding- Who will be the maid of honor, best related parties. Decide who pays for what. man, attendants?Before the wedding Enlist helpDecide on attire Consider hiring a bridal consultant. If Select your wedding gown, shoes and your budget wont stretch that far, askaccessories, as well as bridesmaids relatives and close friends to assist youdresses, tuxes, ower girl dressesin specic tasksselecting a dress, Set the dateinterviewing caterers, locating a Determine the theme or mood If you plan to be married in a church,reception siteespecially in areas This is established with the food, table temple, mosque or in a religiouswhere you feel you need support. settings, owers and entertainmentservice at home, clear the day and time with your clergy. Compose your guest listInterview vendors Let out-of-town guests know your Meet with vendors, such as caterers, Announce your engagementwedding is in the works so they can musicians, orists, photographers, Place your engagementmake travel plans. videographers and bakers. Get cost announcement in the Mail Tribuneestimates from each.and Ashland Daily Tidings. Reserve your reception site'